Psychologists after a long period of research that childhood is the golden age of cultivating a healthy mind, a variety of habits and behavioral patterns, are at this time to lay the foundation, if there is a good start, in the future, the children can be made to the character of the intellectual health of the development; if at this point in time to ignore the children’s mental health, then the hope that the children have a sound personality and a healthy mind after adulthood, it will be more difficult, or even Unlikely. Therefore, as parents should attach great importance to training children with normal psychological principles. So, what should we pay attention to? First, be careful not to care too much about the child This will easily make the child overly self-centered, thinking that everyone should respect him, and as a result, become self-important and arrogant people. Second, do not bribe the child to let the child grow up knowing the relationship between rights and obligations, not to do their duty can not enjoy the rights. Don’t be too close to your children. Encourage your children to live, study and play with people of their own age so that they can learn how to get along with others. Fourth, do not force children to do some things that can not be done Children’s self-confidence is mostly by doing things successfully, forcing them to do things that can not be done, will only blow their self-confidence. Fifth, do not be too harsh on the child, demanding or even scolding This will make the child develop low self-esteem, timidity, avoidance and other unhealthy psychology, or lead to resistance, brutality, lying and leaving home and other abnormal behavior. Sixth, do not deceive and unnecessarily intimidating children Scare children will lose the authority of parents in the minds of children, and all future admonitions, the child will not be obeyed. Don’t criticize or ridicule your child in public in front of your friends. This will cause your child to harbor resentment and shyness, which will greatly damage your child’s self-esteem. Eight, do not overpraise the child’s achievements, a little praise can be, overpraise will make the child contaminated with the bad psychology of fame and fortune. Nine, do not be temperamental to the child This will make the child sensitive and suspicious, emotional instability, timid and fearful. Ten, to help the child to analyze his environment to help the child to solve the problem, rather than instead of them to solve the problem. Children should be taught to analyze the problem, the method of solving the problem. Of course, in order to let the child’s mental health development, not only to give them a good education, every parent should give them a good example.