A month has passed, Zhou Li was invited to Li Gang Wang Juan’s house to have a thank-you dinner. The couple is now understanding of each other, Li just home to the Internet when Wang Juan reduced the noise, let him rest. In return, Li Gang spent more and more time talking with Wang Juan. Both of them feel that the more they talk, the more open they are, and the feeling of happiness is growing. Halfway through the meal, Zhou Li remembered the last time Li Gang said that Wang Juan loved him so much that he lost himself, and could not help but ask Li Gang “Do you think Wang Juan still loves you so much that she lost herself?” ”Yes, tell her that she does not believe, she feels that she has done nothing wrong, but also think I am picking on.” Wang Juan heard this interjection to “Yes, he said many times, I just do not understand.” Li Gang added, “Buy clothes for me to buy expensive, buy cheap for yourself; cooking all my favorite food. This kind of thing is a lot, at first feel good, and then feel wrong. She sometimes takes this when she’s angry, saying how much better I am to you, how you are to me, and I’m stuck in my mind. I asked her to buy herself a good meal, she did not want to ah.” Wang Juan said, “I think I am happy to do so.” Zhou Li asked Wang Juan “everything he likes, ignoring himself, you really can always feel willing and happy?” ”That’s not true, sometimes I feel a little aggrieved, more aggrieved when angry.” ”You know yourself that Li Gang is good to you, so who gave this aggravation? Is it really Li Gang?” Wang Juan was puzzled: “Is it myself?” Zhou Li said in a serious tone: “Everyone wants to be loved and loved, do not want to be ignored. When you forget to give yourself like this, you actually have two layers of meaning. The first layer is to hope that he can also be so forgetful to you, the second layer is that you gave the right to love yourself to Li Gang, you hope that he came to give you endless love. When his payment does not meet your requirements, you feel less love, you will be psychologically unbalanced and feel aggrieved. So on the surface you are forgetting to give, but in fact is to give Li Gang a lot of pressure to love. But the amount of love is really not measurable, and everyone has their own way of doing things and standards, Li Gang is difficult to meet your requirements. He sensed that something was wrong and wanted you to be kinder to yourself, but in reality he wanted you to love him and love yourself, and allow him to love you in his own way, so that the two of them would get along more easily and happily.”