Nowadays, too many parents have a headache because of their children’s early love problem, they think it is a very humiliating thing, they try every way to nip the seeds of early love in the cradle. But, do we really understand early love? Cluelessness, good feelings, and early love are different concepts. Thinking back, when we were young, did we ever have a crush on someone? While we are all infected by the love story of Romeo and Juliet, have we ever thought that Romeo was only 17 years old that year and Juliet was just under 14. Therefore, parents must not define early love as a “beast”, while cutting off the first signs of “early love”, while avoiding their children to keep their mouths shut. In fact, we need to understand, “early love” is not wrong, the fault is that parents will not be correct education and guidance. 1, understand the early love, calmly treat parents first of all to have a correct understanding of the early love behavior, which is in the adolescent children often have a normal phenomenon. If, one day, your child says to you that he or she has a crush on a boy/girl, you should feel happy because your child is not hiding it from you, and, this is a sign that our baby is growing up. Don’t think that your child has fallen in love with a boy or girl because he or she is a bad boy or girl. If you find out that your child is “in love”, you will immediately see it as a beast, you will be furious and angry, or you will tell the teacher and the other parent in a hurry and make a big deal out of it, and that will definitely end in a big mess. Moreover, it may also make the two children produce the same end of the world fallen people’s feeling, but played a role in promoting. Early love is an emotional privacy, parents must keep them confidential, even to very close people. We need to know that children in love with this kind of thing, like a spring, the heavier you press, the higher it will bounce. 2, not peeking at children’s privacy Some parents (mostly mothers) always love to “child early love” as a reason to look through the child’s diary, school bag, cell phone …… Not only that, the aftermath techniques are not up to standard and often found by the child. We all have privacy and want to be respected by others, no matter what excuse parents use to snoop on their children’s privacy, it is extremely offensive. As Huang Lei said, “A teenage girl without secrets, is how to pass this stage of the teenage girl?” 3, education of children to pay attention to the skills of many boys’ parents, a child heard of early love will be furious, two words began to punch and kick, such “stick education” will only cause great harm to the child, which is not only physical pain, more is to the mind to cause harm. In fact, we need to take the initiative to popularize this knowledge for children, open-mindedly tell children that there is nothing wrong with early love, we need to correctly distinguish the difference between early love, good feelings, etc.. Just like the “small parting” in the Fang Yuan side-step to tell his daughter, do not give up the whole forest because of a small pine tree, good and gentle to let children know the advantages and disadvantages of early love, which is much more effective than the stick. 4, to guide the child to academic priority Love is an important lesson in life, but our life is not only love, knowledge is to enhance self-efficacy, lay the foundation for the future of the cornerstone, if the love and uncertainty, confusion, delayed learning, it is not worth the loss. This requires parents to guide correctly, pay attention to changes in children in a timely manner, and keep a good eye on the growth of children.