When his father came back, Xiao Qiang quickly hid in his room, not daring to face his father. He has been home for five years since his first year of high school, during which he was hospitalized for his back pain and spent a lot of money seeking medical help, and his family is getting more and more financially strapped, while his condition has not improved and he still feels back pain. 20 years old, he cannot go to work, and the family is full of worries all day long, and his father is angry when he sees him. Today, Xiao Qiang was introduced to the psychological clinic of a hospital in Beijing with his mother, who wanted to cure the back pain through psychotherapy. But as to why the back pain is psychologically related, he doesn’t quite understand. The doctor’s office was full of patients, and there were too many patients who had pain all over their body and wanted the doctor to help them solve their pain quickly. The doctor said, “I’m not sure if I’m going to be able to get a job. The doctor will deal with other patients and Xiao Qiang alone to communicate, understand that Xiao Qiang’s parents do not get along often quarrels, sister rebellious also often make parents angry, so Xiao Qiang grew up to be good and do not make parents angry, also think sister disobedient, they are not good again that parents are too difficult. What grievances they endure, not to tell people, not to lose their temper to vent out. Later, after the first year of high school, he began to have back pain, and it was not cured for a long time. Now the psychological burden is even heavier, and he feels that his parents spend so much money because of him, and he cannot work to share the burden for his family. The doctor kindly told Xiao Qiang that his back was fine after various tests, and the reason he could not be cured even after an operation was because the psychological problem was not solved. And his ego long-term repression, psychological distress, emotions can not find a breakthrough, and finally reflected through physical discomfort, this is called somatization disorder in medicine. Only when the psychological problem is solved, the back pain will also be solved. He was advised to take some medication to regulate neurotransmitters, as well as psychotherapy. After the doctor’s enlightenment, Xiao Qiang realized that his most troubling problem was his relationship with his father. He knew that his father loved him and took him around to seek medical help for his anxiety, but his father was also unable to express his love, and he just blamed him when he talked to him. The doctor inspired Xiao Qiang to do something on his own initiative if he wanted to ease the relationship between father and son. Xiao Qiang thought he could make his father some of his favorite dishes and stopped avoiding him and took the initiative to say hello to him. When his father scolded him for feeling aggrieved, he did not have to suppress it and could tell his father how he really felt. When Xiao Qiang told the doctor this idea, he felt very relaxed and his back pain was relieved. The doctor smiled and told him, this is right, do not suppress yourself, take the initiative to make changes, you will get better and better. But the process takes some time, patience and determination, and persistence in taking medication and psychotherapy. Xiao Qiang took the medicine and left the clinic with a relaxed mood, feeling that it was a beautiful day. A month later Xiao Qiang called the doctor from far away and said his back was no longer painful. Their family is in the countryside and there was nothing to show their gratitude to the doctor. Their mother ground the new corn just harvested this year into flour and sent it all the way to the hospital, and after work the doctor carried the corn flour home with the fragrance of corn under the strange eyes of his colleagues, full of emotion and relief written on his face. Thank you Xiao Qiang, you also let the doctor experience the most sincere happiness from the heart, in the busy indifferent urban life, but also to experience the true feelings of humanity, which is money and power can not get priceless wealth.