Adolescence is a period of sudden change in the physiological development of adolescents, during which the individual’s physiological development is rapid, driven by a series of physiological changes, the individual’s psychology has also entered a period of rapid development and change, characterized by the development of intellectual ability, the enhancement of self-consciousness, the awakening of sexual awareness and development, as well as emotional richness and contradiction. Therefore, this period is also known as the “stormy period”. Adolescent children show rebellion, desire for freedom, unrestrained, have their own ideas, intellectual development and enhancement of self-consciousness, so that adolescents and young people unprecedentedly high sense of independence, want to get rid of the control, asked for their own masters. At this time, many parents have entered menopause. Most of the menopausal parents are anxious, bored, looking for their children, encountering unsatisfactory things, but also short-tempered, when the child does something wrong or have to look at the wrong place, they will be head over heels a accusation, and some even punching and kicking each other. The most important thing between people is communication and understanding. In the child’s adolescence, parents should give the child as much space as possible, treat the child with an equal mindset, and the child should try to communicate with the parents. The child put their own ideas to the parents to listen to, parents should also cooperate with the child, to create a loose space for them to be able to speak freely, do not give them too much pressure. After all, children are children, experience is still shallow, self-control is still low, such as letting people not as good as the place have to be more tolerant parents. Children should not hold grudges and distance themselves from their parents just because of a few words of criticism. We must know that it is not easy to be born and raised, have a good talk, do not just with the dignity of the parents “fight”. Due to the age difference, the generation gap does exist, but if you don’t cross it, the gap will always be there. Therefore, if you are in the menopause, and your child is precisely in the adolescent parents, then please be more tolerant; if you are in adolescence, and your parents are precisely in the menopause of the child, then please be more sympathetic, don’t let the proud of puberty meets the irritable menopause and the burning sparks!