Because of the trial marriage, found many problems after marriage and fear of marriage, the whole day sad, tearful, and even “do not want to live”. Yesterday, the woman went to the Department of Mental Health of the Wuhan University of Science and Technology Hospital for help. The department doctor Hu Yiwen said that in recent years he has seen many patients with depression caused by trial marriage, he reminded the trial marriage men and women, in the absence of a good deal of trouble and crisis of marriage, do not book a wedding date and not blindly married, more to give themselves some adaptation period, if necessary, seek professional medical help. Miss Zheng is a hospital nurse in Wuhan, just joined the work shortly, as a newcomer, often need to rotate the department, work is very busy, the pressure is also very high, the daily mental tension. Miss Zheng’s boyfriend is the only son of the family, the two graduated from the same university. Before joining the work, the lovers began to live together to try to get married, while the wedding date of this year’s “November” wedding. However, after the trial marriage, Ms. Zheng found that the relationship had not found the problem: her boyfriend never did housework, if married, she had to face the reality of a person to pick up the burden of housework. In addition, her boyfriend’s mother very much wanted to live with them after the wedding, which made it very difficult for Miss Zheng, because she often heard people say that the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not easy to deal with, live together for fear of quarrels, do not live together and hurt the boyfriend. After thinking about it, Miss Zheng thought about the pressure of work, her husband does not know how to do housework, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationship do not know how to deal with, it will be sad all day, and in serious cases even tears, fear of marriage, and even do not want to live. Dr. Hu Yiwen introduced, the current post-80s trial marriage a lot of only child of the family, experience frustration less, lack of corresponding sense of responsibility. They often do not consider some of the difficulties and practical problems after marriage, but too much attention to personal feelings, which leads to the face of the real marriage, many of the previous troubles are not handled, all come out unbearable, triggering pre-marital depression and fear. He suggested that men and women who are trying to get married, without dealing with the worries and crises of marriage, do not blindly get married when they are not in the best shape physically and mentally, and must seek professional medical advice and treatment if necessary.