How many times is the right amount of sex? The amount of sexual activity varies from person to person. Generally speaking, the frequency varies according to ethnicity, different regions, different social and cultural backgrounds, as well as individual age, health and psychological state. Some newlyweds, in the honeymoon almost every day sex, including the wedding night, continuous intercourse 4-5 times, even during the day also closed sex, but should also be appropriate moderation, should not be excessive. Some people survey, the number of men’s sex life generally decreases with age, during the 22-25 years, 3 times a week; 32-35 years, 2 times a week; in the 41-45 years, down to 1 time a week. Of course, this is only an average. Each age group varies greatly, with some as many as several times a day and others as few as once a month. So you can’t judge whether intercourse is moderate just by the frequency of intercourse. Just physiologically speaking, then both men and women, regardless of age, in the generation of sexual excitement, as long as it is not forced, and there is no uncomfortable feeling, then you can have sex, simply do not have to consider the last time how long. The so-called reluctant, women are subservient to the sexual requirements of the male; in men are: originally not so want to sex, but by reading pornographic books or videos to “stimulate” themselves, and even forced masturbation, in order to put into sex life. This is quite harmful. The reason is that after each ejaculation, the male will no longer have a sexual response for a short or long period of time. It is a natural protection for men. If you force yourself to go into sex at this time, it is considered to destroy the protection of their own period of inactivity, which is certainly harmful to the body. A lot of infertility patients are often overwhelmed by the frequency of sex, because some doctors let them have more sex, while others limit it, how to do more effective? The objective criterion for measuring the appropriateness of the frequency of sex is whether or not you are refreshed and happy the next morning. If the following conditions occur on the second day or within a few days after sexual intercourse, and no other reason can be found, it can be considered excessive and should be moderated and the interval between sexual intercourse should be extended appropriately. It is worth mentioning that men are more likely to indulge themselves and have sex too often. In some men’s view, the more sexual intercourse can show the strength and dignity of men; perhaps, they are not clearly aware of this, just feel that they should do their best to meet the sexual requirements of their wives. Therefore, when they have gotten pleasure from sex, they will continue to strengthen their sexual consciousness, attempting to get an erection again in the shortest possible time, with the power of the will to support the tired and ready body for sex, which is undoubtedly a great danger to physical and mental health.