Pass these 10 life temperaments on to your children. A good family, a good parent, does not leave your children 10 acres of land, 10 houses, 10 cars, 10 million dollars in savings, but teaches them 10 life temperaments by word and example. First, train your children to be patient listeners. Listening is really important! Many people today lack patience and can’t bear to listen to other people’s explanations. They always hope that what they say is the most accurate and reasonable, but in fact, in many cases what they consider will be a lot of one-sided. Second, read very quickly. Children who do not have the habit of reading diligently will not have lasting development in the future! Diligent is to have the habit of reading, to learn to read at odd hours, to persist in reading when encountering various difficulties, and fast is to have a fast reading speed, the ability to obtain new reading information, and the ability to exchange reading ideas with peers in a timely manner. Reading, first of all, is the reading of difficult texts, but also includes the reading of information on the Internet, but also includes attention to a variety of real information around, etc.. Third, the ability to communicate with anyone. Without good communication skills you cannot penetrate into the real world and you will lose many opportunities for personal development. It is in the implementation of home education, the communication between children and parents is also particularly important. Fourth, can write. Without good writing skills it is very difficult to seek ideal career opportunities in modern society. The ability to write is also a good way of expression and publicity. Fifth, you can solve your own life problems. (Nowadays, many of the children who study in the United States are only children, they have no life skills, they can’t cook and do laundry, they can’t change tires, they can’t change light bulbs, they can’t paint household furniture, this is not a sign of your nobility, you don’t know how to take care of yourself, you can’t do things with your hands, it means your concept is very outdated. The ability to face and solve problems independently is the survival ability that every person must have in modern society, and is also the basic ability that individuals must have to face life and career. Sixth, the development of children’s rigorous temperament. Rigorous character is the most basic character for children to interact with people, be respected and appreciated in the future. The real situation now is that there are fewer and fewer people who talk about rigor, care about rigor, and insist on rigor, but those who can always be rigorous are the proud ones of the times. Seventh, know how to respect each other, know how to self-criticism. When I was very young, my grandmother told me: “Respect for others is respected by others”. The meaning is very clear, only respect others, will be respected by others. Eighth, the concept of environmental protection, to leave the next generation an intact earth. In fact, many rich, powerful and influential people today often disregard and ignore the concept of “environmental protection” when it comes to meeting their personal comfort. For example, how much wood do you use to decorate a house, and will that bring disaster to the future of mankind? When configuring a home theater, music center, have you considered the decibels when playing will disturb the neighbors and bring noise pollution? When eating all kinds of food, especially when tasting game, have you ever thought about which food ingredients should be controlled and protected? And so on! Ninth, educate and nurture people around you. Not only do you know how to learn and read by yourself, but you will also drive and influence people around you to learn together, which will create an ideal environment for your own continuous and in-depth learning, and learning will gradually be recognized by more and more people around you. Tenth, friendly contact with the outside world. Being receptive to the outside world, to new things, to discovering and learning new things and constantly accepting them, is a very important ability in modern society and an important expression of social progress. If our parents and families can leave our children with these 10 temperaments, the children will be used for the rest of their lives.