Parents should maintain an optimistic and upbeat attitude during the rebellious period of 13-14 year old boys so that their children can go through this period peacefully. If you want your child to have certain qualities, you need to set an example and become a role model that your child can trust, so that your child can naturally learn from the parents without them having to teach. Parents should have trust in their children and not assume that their children are lying when they contradict what others are saying. This will only make children feel that their parents cannot be relied upon and will then close their hearts inside, and in serious cases, even become depressed. The boys in the rebellious period are delicate and their sense of self is beginning to emerge. Parents should respect the child’s sense of self, not to identify it as a child who can not take care of himself, for constructive advice and suggestions, parents should actively adopt. When a rebellious boy speaks his mind and opinions, parents should encourage him, as a single blow will only make the child lose confidence, become inferior and cowardly, and some children with a strong sense of self will also have arguments and conflicts with him. In addition, due to the difference in social experience and identity roles, parents and children may have very different views on the same thing, so they should try to understand and listen to their children, and provide timely guidance.