In ancient times, parents did not blame their children for “seven things”: 1. not to blame the public: do not blame the child in front of the public, but give the child dignity in front of the public. 2. not to blame for shame and regret: if the child is already ashamed of his or her fault, adults should not blame the child. 3. not to blame at night: do not blame the child before going to bed at night. The first thing you need to do is to make sure that you have a good idea of what you are doing. This is the time to blame him, the child with frustration and loss of emotion to go to bed, either sleepless nights, or a series of nightmares. 4. Do not blame your child for eating: Do not blame your child when you are eating. This time to blame the child, it is easy to cause the child’s spleen and stomach weakness. 5, celebrate not to blame: do not blame the child when he is particularly happy. When people are happy, the meridians are in a state of fluidity, if the child is suddenly chastised, the meridians will immediately hold back, which is very harmful to the child’s body. 6, sadness is not to blame: do not blame the child when he cries. 7, disease is not to blame: do not blame the child when he is sick. Sickness is the most vulnerable time of the human body, and children need more love and warmth from their parents, which is more therapeutic than any medicine. – “The Wisdom of Huang Di Nei Jing on Parenting” It makes sense, modern parents can learn from it, and it helps to build a good parent-child relationship; a good parent-child relationship is an important foundation for solving children’s psychological problems.