If someone is willing to listen to us, we will feel very relaxed. The listener just needs to listen attentively and make appropriate interventions. You don’t have to worry about giving any advice or opinions, and of course, if you are asked for an opinion, it doesn’t hurt to give it, because the other person is the one who makes the final decision. If you replace listening with criticizing, scolding, or lecturing, the other person’s heart will be closed to you forever. When a person is not accepted, there is a strong feeling of resistance within him/her. However, once they are accepted, there is room for them to rethink and make appropriate judgments. If you can listen to the other person’s heart, I believe that the other person can also listen to your heart.