Psychological counseling clinic came to a young mother, she said straight to the point: “Consultation is: my child is 2 years old, I want to cultivate from childhood, but I do not know what to do with his personality? Ancient times, let the full-week-old baby to catch their own bow and arrow knife and gun or the four treasures to predict the child’s future grow up to practice the arts or martial arts, this is not justified?” Ancient people used to draw lots to predict the child’s future, which has a certain psychological basis, but with a great deal of chance, we can observe the child’s personality from the child’s usual activities. Children’s nature is to play, children love toys, it seems that there are as many as they can not satisfy them. Which type of toys are favored and how they are played with can reflect the child’s psychological state and have a certain relationship with the child’s character development. Children who like to embrace fluffy toys are likely to be affectionate, delicate, attached and warm. Fluffy toys are often a variety of cute little animals, can be used as toys, but also can be regarded as partners; can coax it to play, but also can use it to vent their emotions, can meet the child’s different moments of emotional needs. In addition, the unique soft texture of plush toys, the character of lonely, timid, eager to care for the child has a comforting, stabilizing effect. Children who like to assemble toys are usually curious, pay attention for a long time, and have more patience. The assembled toys need children’s brain, hands and eyes to cooperate, can exercise their hands and coordination. Plastic assembled toys of beautiful colors, repeated disassembly and installation of safer, is a must for young children’s toys. children within 3 years of age randomly collocation, to the age of 4-5 years old can be asked to install according to the graphics of a named object, but also to encourage them to invent their own graphic toys. Children who like sports toys, such as balls, cars, guns, swords, sticks, rods, etc., are active from childhood and often make kicking, running, jumping and other movements, which are considered by their parents as “unsettling”. They are usually energetic, bold, and do not hide their inner emotions, and movement is their “speech”, a way of expression. Such children like simple toys, and their joy comes from the activity itself, in which the toy is just an “accessory”. Generally speaking, the character of 2-year-old children is not yet formed, according to the different characteristics of the child to give the appropriate guidance. The child who is withdrawn, timid, and doesn’t like to talk is more stable, not easy to do things wrong, strong concentration, and obedient, but they don’t like to socialize, don’t have a strong desire for self-expression, and don’t want to tell others what they think. This kind of children should adopt the method of appreciation, more close to them, to create opportunities for them to socialize with others and speak in group occasions. Gentle, obedient, calm children with strong self-esteem, opinionated, organized, serious, but very much face, do something wrong can not be criticized face to face, otherwise it will hurt their self-esteem. For such children, it is appropriate to take more encouragement, more praise, less criticism, careful observation of the child’s changes, let him explain his new discoveries, from the little by little to start cultivating the child’s spirit of discovery and sense of creativity. Children are very malleable, and with patience, care and proper guidance, they can grow up healthily!