”Every time I buy a new toy for my son, our almost 70-year-old woman is the most enthusiastic to play with it!” “My dad is old, and young ‘digital people’ have a good match, not even learn phonetics well, but forced me to teach him to send text messages. Now he is urging me to buy a new computer so that he can get rid of the current one.” Many people do not understand the old parents who love to try new things and have a big heart. The image of the elderly seems to be supposed to be conservative and stable, so why are there so many old kids in life? Psychologists believe that the “three highs”, i.e. high mental health, high material living standards and high spiritual living standards, are the prerequisites for the elderly to be playful. A major manifestation of the active and healthy mind of the elderly is to maintain a good social learning ability and a keen interest in new information. The convenience and abundance of modern material life also makes it more likely that the elderly are freed from daily chores, so that they have time and conditions to “play”. In addition, a high level of education, good family environment, is also a playful elderly people’s characteristics. “Of course, this is also related to personal character and hobbies.” The deeper side of the psyche believes that the psychology of compensation for aging anxiety is also at play. With the weakening of physical functions, changes in social status, and the shrinking of the circle of life, older people generally have a feeling of being overwhelmed and disconnected from society, and their need to participate and enjoy modern life, realize their value, and gain respect and recognition remains strong. Many of them are anxious and sad, lamenting that they have “missed out on the good times”. In order to achieve a balance between mind and body, a compensatory mechanism is created psychologically, showing a strong curiosity and desire to learn, thus keeping pace with the development of society. ”Importantly, the public’s disbelief in the elderly’s playfulness reflects the negative image of the elderly that prevails in modern society.” Nishi Injun pointed out. Ageism is actually much more common than people think, only more insidious, and usually manifests itself as a prejudice against the image of the elderly as frail, sickly and faint and useless. In fact, only 5 percent of people over the age of 65 are in the hospital, and the percentage of seniors who have lost the ability to care for themselves has been declining in the last decade. And 3/4 of the loss of mental ability of the elderly is due to social, political and cultural aspects rather than medical aspects. Although these fluid intelligence such as perception, memory and arithmetic speed have declined, their skills, language and writing ability, judgment and other crystal intelligence are far better than those of the young. Several psychologists have also demonstrated that the elderly self-evaluate their abilities much more positively than the average person would think. “It’s not the elderly who are old-fashioned, it’s our perception of them.” In addition, this phenomenon highlights the lonely lives and lack of adequate attention to the psychological needs of the elderly. Western culture individualism prevails, the elderly can enjoy themselves, and roughly 30 percent of toys on the market are designed and developed specifically for the elderly. In contrast, the psychological satisfaction of the Chinese elderly comes more from interpersonal relationships, now children’s companionship is less, the richness of leisure life is not given attention, naturally see new things are interested. Therefore, in addition to understanding and supporting their parents’ love of playing, children should also believe in their ability to learn, affirm their wisdom and experience, provide them with more opportunities to play with new things, teach them how to use them, and exchange ideas with them, so that their interpersonal and psychological needs can be satisfied.