First, learn to care about others. Caring for others and helping them overcome difficulties will not only win their respect and affection, but also, because your concern has caused a positive response from others, it will also bring you a sense of satisfaction and enhance your self-confidence in interacting with others. In addition to caring for others, with difficulties to learn to ask for help, because others to help you overcome difficulties, your psychology will of course turn from nervous to relaxed, which not only makes you understand the importance of interaction with people; and because of your sincere thanks, others will also feel happy, which communicates the emotional exchange between people. Second, learn to evaluate yourself correctly. In interpersonal communication, the more correct you know yourself, the more natural your behavior is, the more decent your performance is, and the more you can get others’ positive evaluation as a result. This evaluation is very beneficial to help you overcome inferiority and pride, two psychological barriers that are not conducive to fitting in. In addition, people inevitably have subjective impressions when evaluating others, and the results are often “distorted” as a result. For example, people often infer the character of the person according to some personal data (such as origin, occupation, etc.), such as the accountant is always calculating, petty million. This kind of wrong interpersonal perception, of course, makes it difficult for you to get along with people. Therefore, as long as you can recognize these interpersonal perceptions of prejudice, and not caught by it, you will be able to get along. Third, learn some social skills. If you always fail when interacting with people, the negative emotions caused by this will certainly affect your personality. If you can learn a little more about the art of interaction, since it will help the success of interaction. For example, master several sports and cultural activities skills, such as playing ball and so on, you will find yourself in many occasions will become a popular people. Fourth, maintain the integrity of the personality. The best way to maintain the integrity of your personality, is in the ordinary treatment of people, the principles and attitudes of their own dealings in an understandable way, so that others know how you are a person. In this way, others will know your style, and will not be reluctant to ask you to do what you do not want to do, and you will not often need to refuse the request of others and affect the interpersonal relationship between each other. Fifth, learn to exchange views with others. The formation of a collegial character depends on good interpersonal relationships, and good interpersonal relationships begin with mutual understanding, mutual understanding between people and rely on each other in the ideas and attitudes of communication. Therefore, often find opportunities to talk with others, chat, discuss certain issues and exchange some views is very necessary. Friendship grows out of mutual charity and love. Mencius said it well: “Those who love people always love them”. If you can take the initiative to extend the hand of kindness, it will immediately be held by the hands of countless friendships.