A famous American psychologist had done such an experiment: He divided a group of mice into two groups randomly: group A and group B, and told the breeder of group A that the mice in this group were very smart; at the same time, he told the breeder of group B that the mice in this group were of average intelligence. A few months later, the professor tested the two groups of rats through the maze and found that the rats in group A were really smarter than the rats in group B. They were able to get out of the maze and find food first. So he was inspired, and he wondered if this effect could also happen to people. He came to an ordinary high school, walked casually in a class, then circled a few names on the student list and told their teachers that the students had high IQs and were very smart. After some time, the professor came back to this high school, and the miracle happened again, those few students selected by him now really became the top of the class. Why does this phenomenon occur? In fact, we spend our whole life in different degrees of hypnosis, and we unconsciously receive all kinds of hypnotic messages, and many of these messages come from our parents, relatives and friends, our most trusted people, and it has a profound influence on our growth, but the hypnosis we receive is divided into: “positive hypnosis” and “negative hypnosis”. Positive hypnosis These messages make us believe that I am good enough; that I can succeed; that I am loved; that I can trust others; that the world welcomes me and accepts me; that I am worthwhile, that there is hope in life, that life is difficult but at the same time we can keep learning and improving, and that it is a journey that can be enjoyed …… Negative hypnosis These messages make us believe: I am not good enough; I cannot succeed; I am not loved; I am not important; the world is full of danger; I cannot trust others; life is full of pain; I cannot get out of suffering… Parents are natural hypnotists According to the latest research findings, at the age of 0-6, the neural pathways of the human brain are immature and nearly 85% of Children are extremely hypnotically receptive, and those aged 4-10 are the most receptive to hypnotic suggestion. Since the key to hypnosis lies in the perceptiveness of suggestion, and children are highly receptive to their parents’ words and behaviors, children are the best learners, and they are always observing and imitating their parents’ words and behaviors with a body and mind three hundred times more sensitive than adults, thus providing good conditions for parents’ hypnosis to be effective. This is a true story of a little girl who was diagnosed with ADHD by a doctor and whose mother deeply believed in the doctor’s diagnosis (in fact, the mother also unconsciously received hypnosis from the doctor at this time). After a brief inquiry, the counselor left the little girl alone in the counseling room, and he took the girl’s mother out of the counseling room, leaving a crack in the door instead of closing it tightly before going out. Half an hour later, the counselor and the mother saw in the open doorway – the little girl was dancing!” Your daughter is a natural dancer!” So said the counselor. Later this little girl became the lead in the famous musical “Cats” and appeared in “Phantom of the Opera”, she became a shining star on Broadway, she was Jillian Lynn. We only have to imagine that if the mother did not see her daughter dancing back then, perhaps her deeply implanted belief was: My daughter is ADHD, there is something wrong with my daughter. Driven by this belief, she passed on to her daughter is also bound to be negative hypnosis, constantly in a problematic state, then that shining star of Broadway no longer exists. Every child is born with all the gifts, it’s just that certain children, with a very good environment to allow their gifts to flourish, such children, perhaps, are what we call geniuses. In fact, every child has a talent for language, a talent for music, a talent for sports, and every child can be a future athlete, painter, or artist. The key is, is the parent giving the child positive or negative hypnosis? When children show their gifts and talents, when they need love and attention, do parents look at them with a critical eye or do they help them in a supportive way.