I. Parents set an example
1. Praise your child’s mind, not his appearance;
2.Read with your child instead of surfing the Internet yourself;
3. Set an example in public places by speaking softly to people rather than shouting;
4.Look at your eyes when you talk to your children, and always say “please, thank you, excuse me”;
5.When talking with your child, do not say bad things about others, but often ask your child: “What do you find good about this person?”
Second, maintain communication
1.Listen patiently to your child and thank him for his willingness to share;
2. Address others not as “male or female” but as “male or female”;
3, to provide services to people (such as waiters and cleaners, etc.), take the initiative to smile and thank, and encourage children to do the same;
4, often ask your child: you think you do, how will others feel!
Third, cultivate children’s self-confidence
1, the child’s self-confidence is the basis of emotional intelligence capabilities, its importance, just like the foundation of the building, such as the foundation is not stable, the tall house is very easy to collapse.
2, many parents excessive praise: “child you are the best”, in fact, often flowing pale and powerless. To praise for specific things or behavior.
3, confident children have three positive self-perception: I am good-looking, I am capable, I am popular.
4. Teach your baby interpersonal skills
1.Introduce strangers in a gentle tone to make your child feel safe;
2.Do not force your child to interact with strangers to avoid increasing your child’s tension and anxiety;
3.Do not label your child negatively (such as “cowardly”, “shy”, etc.);
4.Take time to calm the child’s emotions;
5, do a demonstration, teach your child how to greet others, as long as there is progress will be greatly praised.