My husband has been discharged from the hospital for more than 40 days now, it seems that his appetite and rest are relatively normal, in daily life, did not give him too many supplements, only a little XXXX powder, currently taking only XX and XXX. as you said, my husband’s tongue is thicker, there are tooth marks around, suggesting spleen deficiency, trapped dampness. So how should I solve this problem, is it okay to eat yam and barley porridge regularly? I read in the book of Zhongba Li Ren that you can take this congee often, it is for strengthening the spleen, is it okay? My husband is not suffering from bitterness of the mouth and dryness of the urine, and his strength has recovered a lot, so he can accompany us to go for a walk on weekends, just as exercise. Sexual life is worse than before hospitalization, taking into account the recovery of the body, once a week, do not dare too often, the original can last longer, but now once entered, will soon ejaculate, should be the reason for the weak body. However, as long as someone is there, it doesn’t matter about anything else, properly feed again for a while, there should be good results. Reply: Thank you for your trust, even such a private matter we can communicate, or that: everything for the patient! Of course, I am a doctor and your father, I hope you can understand. But there is no need to inform your husband, okay? I think you have handled the matter of Chinese medicine for spleen quite well. We have a leader in the Chinese and Western Liver Institute who often says that what is natural is what is reasonable and environmentally friendly. The cure should also go with nature, then natural food and herbs are naturally beneficial. Secondly, sex, I am not an expert in sexology, but as a member of the Chinese and Western medicine treatment, as a member of the Guangzhou eugenics expert group, I have read a lot of information on this, which can be learned from. Your husband’s onset on August 20, now just three months, from time to time it is still too early to have sex, know that he is very sick, at least half a year off! You mentioned that “now once you enter, you will soon ejaculate” suggests that the vitality has not yet recovered. Of course, he can be as natural as before, and compared to the disease before reaching quite firm, that is still a good thing, the masculine energy to restore. It is natural for a middle-aged man in his thirties to have an erection in the morning, but if you cannot have an erection in the morning, then it is your responsibility to give a local massage. It is recommended that you pay attention to the state of erection, but avoid the temptation to avoid or reduce intercourse, once the intercourse, it is difficult to ensure that you do not ejaculate, but just suffer you (so I always say that women are great), the purpose is to preserve the capital; after the disease can erection indicates the recovery of bodily functions. The person who lifts, erection also; not ejaculate, not ejaculate. Day by day, it is recommended that you have an erection for a month, at least half a month before ejaculating. Be aware of the long days ahead.