Self-confidence (inferiority complex) describes a state of mind in which a person adapts socially. However, it has been culturally divided into two sides: self-confidence and inferiority, and this division forces people to think in opposites and observe in an either/or way. So self-confidence and inferiority complex from an originally unified state of mind just have ups and downs into a diametrically opposed, can not co-exist of two things. So self-confidence and inferiority complex originally unified just have ups and downs of the state of mind into a diametrically opposed, can not coexist in the two poles. If you are confident, you cannot also be inferior. Culture promotes self-confidence, the subtext is not inferiority, somehow denied the inferiority, by the inferiority of many emotional discomfort is not caused by inferiority itself, but our culture has long been rendered due. Culture gives us many frustrating, bad associations with low self-esteem: ‘People with low self-esteem are not competitive and are ultimately losers in life.’ Culture defines such states of mind in linear logical terms, when in fact many states of mind are an emotional capacity of the person, randomized and adapted to the environment. Another cultural construct is that “people with low self-esteem are unhappy and unlovable.” These constructs solidify what is a natural state of mind into a self-defeating state of mind that everyone has to hide or avoid, adding a lot of internal anxiety to the mix. At present, the proliferation of inspirational books, constantly exaggerating the gap between self-confidence and low self-esteem, and preaching that as long as you have self-confidence, you can do anything you want. The result of this excessive promotion of self-confidence makes us lose more. Confidence itself implies a desire for expansion. It is also because of our confidence that we have spoiled nature to such an extent that the Copenhagen Conference has been convened. It is also because of American self-confidence that the war in Iraq is still going on. In relationships, confident people are more aggressive, less likely to share others’ wishes, and likely to make everyone uncomfortable. Confidence and low self-esteem are like the two sides of a coin, existing simultaneously and closely together. Confidence allows us to gain the courage to face the outside world. Low self-esteem allows us to stay humble. There is no need to keep them separate, so let’s keep a peaceful mind and honestly accept our self-confidence and low self-esteem. The series “Another Perspective on the World” is not entirely psychological, but is my own viewpoints formed after studying philosophy, psychology, sociology, culture, etc. Some of the views are even very different from psychology. Some of the views are even very different from psychology, so please have more tolerance for psychology friends, non-psychology friends do not as psychology to learn.