Nowadays, Internet addiction among teenagers seems to be more and more common. How to go about quitting Internet addiction has become a big headache for parents, schools and psychologists. Internet addiction is a psychological problem, but psychologists often have little success after giving psychotherapy to Internet addicted teenagers. I think there are two main reasons for this: First, children with Internet addiction do not have a strong desire to seek help. They know that Internet addiction is bad, but they are more permissive about their behavior. Seeing a psychiatrist is mostly a parental intention. The prerequisite for psychotherapy is that the visitor takes the initiative to seek treatment, and the initiative to seek treatment is the motivation to drive the treatment. If the motivation is gone, how can the treatment move forward? Second, the root cause of Internet addiction problems often lies in the family. If the family problem is not solved and the child’s Internet addiction is eliminated, the consequence is that “if you don’t eliminate the root of the problem, it will grow again in the spring”. We say that the influence of family on children is obvious. The parent-child relationship is the foundation of all human relationships. To give an inappropriate example, the family is like a mold, the kind of mold will produce the kind of children. This mold has an impact on the child’s personality, defense style, emotions, behavior, etc. The child behaves in a way to fit this mold. Therefore, the child’s behavior is passive. Even if the child’s behavior changes with outside intervention, once the child returns to the family mold, the child reverts to the previously adapted behaviors. This is the reason why our treatment for children does not work or does not last long. This is true for children with Internet addiction, and it is also true for the treatment of other behavioral problems in adolescents. The members of the family, the personality of the members, the way they conduct themselves in the world, and the relationships between the members make up the type of mold. In the mold, the parents play the biggest role, followed by grandparents or grandma and grandpa. Each family situation is different and the role played varies. It is this environment that is influencing the growth and development of the child. Children grow up adhering to the principle of the pursuit of happiness and tend to avoid harm. What kind of families tend to push children into Internet addiction? 1. Sparing and managing families. Parents are busy with their own careers and do not know much about their children, giving them too much time and space. 2.Relationship discord type of family. In such a family, the child’s feelings are often ignored, on the other hand, the child does not feel safe, which affects the real-life relationships and deepens the addiction to the Internet. 3, single-parent families. 4, too serious family. Family atmosphere is not active, parents and children are like teachers and students, officers and soldiers, lack of emotional communication, only constant demands, orders and obedience. The network is the opposite, absolutely obey your demands without hurting you. In fact, the above are only simple categories, there are many specific reasons for the formation of Internet addiction. Such as partners are online games will appear herd mentality and addicted to the network, some because become sought after network masters and addicted to the network, there are online games made more and more beautiful and exciting is also one of the reasons for people addicted to the network. In short, addiction to the Internet satisfies a psychological need. Although many of the direct causes of Internet addiction do not lie in the family, the family is also responsible for failing to detect the development of addiction from enjoyment to addiction. If we find out in time, it is completely possible to avoid the emergence of addiction. When a child becomes addicted to the Internet, the most undesirable and common situation is for the parents to storm out and start roughly restricting the child’s behavior, interfering with the child’s activities, and going to various Internet cafes like plainclothes to search the child’s whereabouts. In the end, the mother and son are not close to each other, the father and son rebellion. The child is getting more and more lonely and depressed, and his dependence on the Internet is getting stronger and stronger. When we find out that our children are addicted to the Internet, we should calm ourselves down, find out what the problem is, listen to the child’s voice, and find the real cause before prescribing the right medicine. If necessary, parents can seek help from a psychologist.