Case 2: Sad Lele – Dreams dashed to see what is annoying People as its name, Lele was a very cheerful girl in high school, but since entering college, she has become depressed, sighing and frowning all day long, almost do not talk to classmates. Sometimes, her classmates could hear her crying secretly under the covers after lights out. Her classmates suspect that she is suffering from depression …… Beijing Huilongguan Hospital Clinical Psychology Department Wu Yaxue Psychologist Introduction: The second common manifestation of maladjustment among college students is depressed mood, low self-esteem, self-hatred or resentment, not loving to interact with classmates, and self-imposed closure. They may also suffer from insomnia, poor eating habits, or physical discomfort such as headache, nausea, or diarrhea. At first glance, it looks like depression, but its severity is less severe. So, why did Lele not feel happy once he entered the university campus? Analysis of the cause: The original. Lele had very good academic performance in high school, and her boyfriend and she were determined to enter the same famous university. However, the sky is unpredictable, his boyfriend got what he wanted, but she failed in the college entrance examination and only applied for a second-class university in a foreign country. Because she was completely unprepared, her mind was a mess when she filled out the application, and the major she filled in was a science and technology subject that she was not good at. Although she did not feel anything at that time, but once the university started, she found that she could not learn at all at the beginning of the study, so she began to regret her failure in the college entrance examination, and could not accept this university inwardly, and spent all day in the state of mind of regret and self-blame, and her academic performance became worse and worse …… Comments: Each of our students can say Once the gap between the reality we see and the dream inherent in our minds, it will cause us to resist the new life, and the bigger the gap, the stronger this emotion will be. So much so that some students lose the confidence to adjust themselves and depression ensues. Solution: With the help of the psychologist, she readjusted her mindset to give up her unrealistic dreams and instead take heart in the happy life she now has at this university. She was also helped to change her major back to the arts and history, which she was better at. Her long-distance boyfriend later also knew about this, and called her specially to comfort her, and said to her that he would not leave her just because they were far away …… With everyone’s joint help, her mood gradually regained its usual cheerfulness, and her academic performance became better and better. The psychologist’s advice to Lele was, “Dreams can sometimes get in the way of the eyes of reality.” No matter what has happened in the past, and even more so in the future, all we need to do is to feel fully happy and successful today!