The other day a friend and I were talking about how the extra points for promotion are not strict enough now and how unbalanced the child is. In fact, how many things are absolutely fair? When experiencing unfairness, anyone’s heart will be depressed, can not think, let alone a teenage child? I remember when I was a kid, my teacher used to assign the homework of reciting the text. Some children were lazy, but they were lucky to escape the teacher’s questions, and they were happy. And some children recited but not fluently, and were criticized by the teacher. The child who has memorized the text feels aggrieved and feels that the teacher is unfair. As a parent, how do you explain when your child encounters a similar “unfairness”? First, tell your child that there is nothing unfair about being criticized! The child who got away with recitation may not be so “lucky” next time. It is better to have a teacher point out your problems than to hide them from the teacher and end up with bigger and bigger problems, which is bad luck for you. Let your child understand that often “unfairness” is only an appearance, and you may think it is fair when the outcome of a matter is in your favor, and unfair when it is not. We need to look at those so-called “unfairness” correctly, because they are not insurmountable mountains, but rather an opportunity on our life path. It is these “unfair”, so that we have the opportunity to see their own problems, let go of their own shortcomings, easy on the road.