Patient: In life or at work, I don’t dare to look at people, sometimes it’s a beautiful female colleague, sometimes it’s a beautiful student, in short, it’s the kind of feeling. As long as people look at themselves, I dare not look at others. If you do not feel the female will not be in this situation, now there are two girls in the class is like this, they are good friends, at first I look a uncomfortable, and then probably she and the other one said, this girl sometimes look at me in class, at first is feeling a little angry with her, sometimes she looks at me uncomfortable there is a smile (just expression), I feel that others look at me, I will be incoherent. In the past few years of teaching, I have encountered this problem in every class, I am very awkward, and the girls are also very awkward. I was afraid to look people in the eye when they looked up, and for a teacher, it was painful for me. I know it’s a form of social fear, but I really don’t know what to do, and would appreciate your guidance. If it’s troublesome, it’s okay to find time for individual counseling. Does this stem from like? Or am I asking too much of myself? I really don’t know how to deal with it. Sometimes I also wonder if I’m having an impact on others, whether they resent me and what they think of me. Guangzhou Brain Hospital psychiatric department Xu Guiyun: 1, may belong to social fear. 2, each person’s situation is different, the treatment method is also different. 3, the love of beauty, the appreciation of beauty is a common feeling. 4, they have “feelings” for beautiful women, is also a common sense. From the emotion, stop the ritual, enough. Bright and upright, there is no moral deficit. 5, you lack of self, mainly on their own behavior lack of moral justice confidence. 6, more training, more practice, more social activities together with boys and girls, you will certainly have moral confidence.