Scolding is not necessarily bad, how to educate children

  But on a scolding, it is impossible to evaluate good or bad. The success of the wolf father’s children does not mean that scolding is good, and the failure does not mean that scolding is bad. Wolf Dad just takes scolding as a gimmick, and it is really meaningless for experts to argue for scolding and Wolf Dad. Scolding is good or bad, the child’s feelings are important. Another point is that the atmosphere of the family is also important. Some parents do not scold their children, but the children feel depressed at home. This situation is not necessarily better than scolding.  Society needs all kinds of people, and not that kind of upbringing should be taken as a template. As long as they can adapt to the life they face, they can accept their own situation on it. Being able to go to Peking University only shows academic success. It was Dad’s expectation, and it can only mean Dad’s success. Because the child’s voice is not heard, it is not known if it is the child’s success. Not everyone will bar to go to Peking University as their wish. What we have to be careful of is that we are forcing our own ideas on our children, who are helping us to achieve our wishes. In this process, if the child identifies with the wish, the process will be happy. The child will grow up very healthy. If they don’t, problems can easily arise.  Education is a very personalized thing. We need to learn from others what fits our reality. Not copy it.