Among students with good character, there are many who do not have sound psychological development, or have certain psychological defects and misconceptions: 1, excessive pursuit of perfection Excessive demands on themselves, attention to detail in their behavior, the slightest bit not enough, they will be anxious, or even serious symptoms. 2, too high expectations of others and the environment either complaining about the low value of the surrounding students, or complaining that the environment facilities are not as good as they should be, they experience the most dissatisfaction and unhappiness in school, less happiness and joy. 3, focus on the negative side Some good students tend to see only their own shortcomings and weaknesses in their self-evaluation, and ignore their strengths and advantages. Focus on the negative side is also manifested in the intolerance of their own failure. 4, too much attention to their own image and the evaluation of others On the one hand, always want to leave a good impression, and therefore very concerned about the evaluation of others; on the other hand, in the interaction with people always dissatisfied with their own demeanor, and afterwards have to repeatedly consider what deviation, so that they are not easy. In addition, some outstanding students also show that when faced with a choice, hesitation, many people to maintain the “excellent” evaluation and nervousness, anxiety, some students continue the existence of bad mood, and physical symptoms, such as dizziness, insomnia, stomach pain, etc.. These manifestations are the result of the combined effect of family, school, society and the individual, so it is important to strengthen students’ frustration education and hard work education. Society to the best students, the best students to themselves, to learn to lower expectations plant, change the pursuit of perfection to enhance the strengths and avoid shortcomings. School education should allow students to be more in touch with society, expand their horizons, refine their wills and broaden their minds, which will help cultivate a healthy psychological quality of students.