The main domestic behavioral therapy for sexual dysfunction is currently the sexual concentration training method. There are seven assignments in the sexual concentration training method, described as usual, suitable for the treatment of erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation, sexual frigidity and other sexual dysfunctions, which can be practiced step by step or applied optionally. It is best to do it under the guidance of a doctor, and the process and reaction of each assignment should be recorded and reported to the doctor regularly so that the treatment plan and process can be adjusted at any time. It is important to emphasize that couples with sexual dysfunction should understand that the ultimate goal of sexual activity is that both parties can be sexually satisfied. The homework often causes uneasiness in both parties due to unsuccessful sexual intercourse, so that unpleasant tension replaces good emotions, therefore interfering with caressing and intimacy and distracting. Before doing therapeutic homework, the first thing that should change the mood of the couple, improve this mood is to extend the time of play caress love and special touch. It is necessary to do the homework in good conditions (closed door, warm and comfortable, soft light, pleasant music, etc.) for one hour a day. Couples should create an atmosphere of mutual understanding and pleasant mood, try to attract each other with the greatest care, reminiscence of past good love, etc. 1. Assignment 1: Mutual touch of the moving area Men and women fully expose their respective bodies. One of them, often women, lie down on their backs, and the other begins to gently touch the partner. Touch in various forms, while the person being touched gradually changing their position. This is repeated three times, at five-minute intervals. The couple should try to experience their own feelings and be completely submissive. Do not touch each other’s sexual organs (including the woman’s breasts) at first, but should gradually touch these erogenous zones of the body. If some people can not focus their thoughts on the sense of touch, then during the day do self-training should be careful to make their energy to focus on their own feelings (such as tension, comfort, calm breathing, abdominal warmth, etc.). When training, you should not be distracted to think about things that are not related to the experience of sensuality. You should be good at showing your love, be happy and excited. Talking about worries and critical words is “sexual sabotage”, even if it is a training opinion, it should be put aside for the rest of the assignment. 2, homework two: women’s sexual organs excitement sensation The beginning of the couple should repeat homework (a) 1-2 times, then the man’s back against the wall or bed, the woman’s back towards the man sitting between his legs, the legs around the man’s legs naturally down. The male partner begins to gently rub the female partner with his chest and inner thighs, and begins to use his own hands to stroke his partner’s hands, gradually moving his hands to his sexual organs – in a way that arouses the female partner’s pleasure. The intensity of the female partner’s hand movements will vary with the level of sexual arousal of the female partner. But it should start slowly and softly. If the female partner has pleasure occurring, the hand will be held tighter and the male partner’s hand movements should be accelerated. Sexual organ excitement should not be a constant “dry”, if the female sexual organ humidity is not enough, the man can smear some lubricant on the fingertips. 3, homework three: the male penis stimulation sense Repeat homework (a), to develop a pleasant mood, to create a good environment. Assignment three begins with the male partner lying on his back, the female partner close to the male partner, the male partner pulling the female partner’s hand to the penis, the female partner stimulating the penis with her hand until he feels satisfied. The operation must be focused and pleasant in mind, but to control the degree, do not let him ejaculate. At this time, the male partner should fully experience the sensations of each part. When stimulating the penis avoid unpleasant touching, you can first put some lubricant on the head of the penis. When there is enough erection the female partner stops stimulating for a while and draws the male partner’s attention away from the state of arousal, so that the erection of the penis disappears. Then stimulate again, erect again; stop again, and disappear again. Repeat three times for nearly half an hour, the male partner should be well-experienced in sexual excitement and experience the sensation when the penis is erect. This set of exercises is a training for male sexual dysfunction with good effect, and also has good effect on female sexual indifference patients. 4.Assignment 4: extension of penile excitement Assignment (a) should be repeated before each set of assignments. The female partner stimulates the penis until ejaculation (this requires the male partner to tell the female partner in time). There are two stages before ejaculation begins: the male partner anticipates that he is about to ejaculate will tell the female partner in time to immediately stop stimulating and pressing the glans penis; whatever method is taken to control ejaculation. The male partner should learn to judge the feeling of the first stage and tell the female partner in time in order to stop stimulation and wait for the level of sexual excitement to decrease. The aim of the operation is to enable the male penis to withstand prolonged stimulation (initially by the woman’s hand and later in the vagina) without ejaculation. The male partner should clearly talk about his feelings during the operation and learn to take measures in time. 5, operation five: the female sex organ and stay in the vagina when the penis in contact with the feelings of both sides The male party reached a certain degree of sexual excitement, the female party is facing the male party sitting on the male party’s lap, and in this position to stimulate the penis, the female sex organ slowly approach the penis, if the female party does not feel nervous at this time take the initiative to pull the penis to the vaginal opening, let the penis to stimulate the labia minora, clitoris. If the penis is still very hard, the woman sends the penis into the vagina. At this point the couple remains quiet and carefully experiences the sensations during this state. If the penis is not hard, take it out, re-stimulate it to make it hard and then put it back into the vagina, and so on. After some time, the woman can start rubbing and concentrate on the stimulation of the parts of the penis that are stimulated by the pumping of the penis in the vagina. The male partner remains quietly lying, does not move and does not try to satisfy any request of the female partner, enjoying and indulging in the sensations produced by the pleasant penis rubbing against the vagina. This set of operations involves taking the penis out of the vagina several times and putting it in several times. The man informs the woman as soon as he realizes that he is going to ejaculate and takes steps to make the erection disappear. This repeatedly interrupts the friction three times and finally ejaculates. Impatience should be ruled out during the operation. If pregnancy is feared, effective preventive measures can be used. If a penis condom is used, it should be put on the male partner when the female partner stimulates the penis. 6.Assignment 6: Stimulation of the clitoris when the penis enters the vagina The purpose of the assignment is to make the penis sexually excited when it enters the vagina. After doing the first set of homework the woman should move her hand down to the penis and stay in a quiet state. At this point the male partner stimulates the clitoris with his hand. Once the woman is sexually excited she should take the man’s hand off and use the penis to rub the action, prompting the man to reach the peak of sexual excitement. The penis is bound to touch the clitoris when pushing. To be clear, stimulating the clitoris can often achieve the purpose of sexual excitement. If the clitoris and vagina can be stimulated at the same time using combined sexual stimulation is what most women crave. In further operations, both men and women feel the same sexual excitement coming on. When the woman stimulates the penis and puts it into the vagina, she generally does not feel sexually aroused yet. With that, her movements slow down. When the penis is already inside the vagina, she begins to move faster and faster and allows the penis to stimulate the clitoris to the maximum extent possible. At this point, the couple’s sense of sexual excitement is very sensitive, creating favorable conditions for sexual satisfaction. 7, job seven: friction with stimulating action a way of sexual intercourse is the woman lying on the man’s body, with the two of them colliding action for sexual organs to rub against each other; another is the traditional way of the woman in the next, that is, the man put the penis into the vagina after the two legs lifted up on the woman’s legs outside, the woman’s legs straight, the man for pushing action, when the clitoris collision. The male partner generally should not push quickly when the woman is not yet in a state of sexual excitement, and should not ejaculate when the woman has not yet reached sexual excitement. The man should consider the needs of the woman, if necessary, can be tested to extend the duration of intercourse, control ejaculation. If the woman is also in sexual excitement at this time, but the pleasure comes later than the male, then the male ejaculation, still can be clitoral stimulation to enable the woman can also reach sexual excitement climax and get sexual satisfaction.