A parent is depressed, first of all, the child did not become a pioneer, “but the quality of parents,” think he behavior learning attitude can still slowly come to correct “, however, I heard that “join the Young Pioneers time and so on these are to enter the file, the child’s future impact. ” (Mind) all of a sudden it is messy.” We understand the mother’s feelings, more sympathetic to her “messy (mind).” However, if you think that your child’s failure to make the Pioneer team is a problem, the cause and solution to that problem lies neither with the teacher nor with the school, but with the mother. You must be anxious, don’t be! ”Confucius climbed the eastern mountain and small Lu, climbed Mount Tai and small world.” We often look down from the high classroom, look at the world, look at life, look at education, look at children, but the parents have been stuck in the ground floor, do not think of our views, because the perspective is not the same, he can not keep up not to say, but also scolded! Saying that I keep advocating parents to learn, Ming Xiao see long wisdom, analyze the ins and outs of children’s problems, attribute many problems to the parents. ” Light is lost, impatient is lost king.” In the course of life companionship with children, we experience will not have much appreciation, appreciation of flowers and applause, more just plain and ordinary waves and murmurs. However, many parents of elementary school students are tormented by anxiety about their children’s future and cannot relieve themselves, “their hearts die tomorrow”. Its negative predictions make her feel that education is pitch black and cannot find a ray of light; parents of secondary school students struggle with the problematic interference of their children’s history and cannot unravel it, “yesterday is dead at heart”, he does not trust his children and feels desperate, unable to get rid of the memories of the past. The common feature of these parents is the lack of learning, the lack of life wisdom, the inability to see the true nature of life, the inability to realize the truth of life, the fact that they themselves have not yet awakened and cannot awaken their children’s sleeping souls. At the same time, they lack a good mindset to educate their children, they cannot understand where the key to education lies, they cannot touch the rhythm of their children’s life growth, they cannot arouse the resonance of their children’s hearts, and their education certainly cannot be sublimated to a state that nourishes their children, they can only “force” “force pressure” “forced”, naturally provoke the child’s “boredom” “bored” “disgusted”, she will “dead set” “dead set” ” dead chase “. Pathetic! These parents are double victims, both passive victims of the times, and self-inflicted initiative to cater to the times and let the child become a sacrificial lamb. Pity! The educational environment of our generations varies widely, but the general trend is the loss of culture, loss of morality, loss of faith, spiritual loss, invisible and infinite traditional educational resources imbued in daily life are eroded, the cultural soil we face when we grow up, the moral nourishment we inculcate to accept is gone, and all that remains is the worrying fact: the Internet shapes children’s souls, advertising tempts children’s desires, games The Internet shapes children’s souls, advertisements tempt children’s desires, games attract children’s interests, pornography stimulates children’s senses, and cell phones take up children’s time. Pity! “Learning to do is also. The clarity of action is also clear. Parents are oblivious to the above facts, and they and their children are passively and actively becoming victims! It goes without saying that parents struggling to survive on the subsistence line, and beyond this line, could have developed the habit of continuous learning, thus acquiring a pair of intelligent eyes to identify the complexity of the educational process, cultivating a pair of wise ears to discern worldly vulgar distractions, and returning to educational coolness and clarity. But they spend their time on boring socializing, entertainment and pastimes, and are blindly conceited. ”And if the accumulation of water is not also thick, then it is not strong enough to carry a big boat.” Learning wisdom is the only way for parents to enhance their realm, analyze problems, and hold a blue sky for their children’s growth with a strong mind, so that they will not be easily “messed up” by the slightest breeze. So how should a mother act? Wait, be quiet and analyze tomorrow. Finally, ” nagging is the biggest killer of education” I want to ask you: is it because I repeatedly stressed this point and lost the sense of warning?