Suicide is the act of an individual who intentionally or voluntarily takes various means to end his or her life. When it comes to Leslie Cheung, Melissa Ong, Lynn Chen, Ernest Hemingway and the Korean stars Park Yong Ha, Choi Jin and so on, we are reminded of their interpretations of the classics in addition, we have to conclude in them again —– they all died of suicide. First of all is there a precursor to suicide? The answer is yes, first of all people who want to commit suicide often talk about suicide, always talk or think about death; for example, Hong Kong star Leslie Cheung on April 1, 2003, left a suicide note before jumping to his death in Central, Hong Kong, the letter elaborated on his extreme pain, contradictory emotional world. There are also frequent unexplained sighs, saying that life is meaningless and there is no point in living; saying “I’m better off not being here” or “I’m leaving”; gradual sadness, painful depression, loss of interest in things that used to matter, insomnia and eating problems; sudden visits or phone calls to say goodbye to others; putting up with the idea of “I don’t want to be here. Calling to say goodbye to others; putting things in order, organizing things to be thrown away or changing the will; looking for information and means of suicide on the Internet, etc. are all precursors to suicide. In this world, no one is born without love for life, no one does not fear death, because life for people only once. So when they fall out of love, emotionally depressed, no one to talk to, broken relationships with important people, broken homes, loss of family, serious illness, loss of health, loss of freedom, excessive pressure, loss of jobs, money, status, self-esteem, etc., they do not want to die, they just want to escape from that unbearable situation, they do not want to end their lives, just want to end their suffering. Secondly suicide does not happen suddenly, it has a process of development. When a person encounters a problem that is difficult to solve and wants to escape from reality, he or she is prepared to use suicide as a means of solving the problem in order to free himself or herself. This is when the suicidal motive or suicidal ideation is formed, but the individual’s instinct to survive will cause the person to be caught in the conflict between life and death, thus showing signals such as talking about suicide, implying suicide, and other direct or indirect expressions of suicide attempts. Finally, when the individual is freed from the conflict, the will to die is firm, the emotion gradually recovers, showing abnormal calm, considering ways to commit suicide and making preparations for suicide. Such as buying a rope, collecting sleeping pills, etc. Waiting for the time to come, that is, to take the act of ending life. So when someone talks about the idea of suicide, you should seriously consider believing his words, because he may be in trouble, he is sending a call for help, he may also be planning to put this idea into action, so you should not be shy, must do something. First of all, you have to show him your sincere concern, care for him and encourage him. Listen to him and hear his feelings, which is a supportive force. When there is a possibility of an immediate crisis, please do not leave him behind. You can seek support from any agency or trusted person you can consult, or call the police to deal with it. If it is you who is troubled, please be sure that all that has happened to me and to everyone else will be the same unpleasant experience, and there is no reason why I need to carry the burden of the world alone. The pain and fears in my heart are only to be spoken, and it is like a relief to let go of a heavy burden. I can ask my family and friends for help if I need it. Phone calls to crisis centers helped to ease my emotions and provide relief. Always remember that we don’t want to die, we just want to escape that unbearable situation, we don’t want to end our lives, we just want to end our suffering.