Parents often struggle with their children’s learning problems, children do not learn well, homework is not serious, procrastination, and so on. This is often related to parents’ excessive concern for their children’s learning and grades. When children come home, all they hear is “homework? Don’t watch TV, do it early! How to write so scribbled! How many points ……”. When it comes to learning adults tend to be happy, but in the long run, children will be bored, boredom arises immediately. What to do? Love your child to love everything about your child, to make your child love learning you have to love everything about your child in school, so that your child can feel that his parents are loving him and paying attention to him, rather than just loving his learning and only paying attention to his learning. From the first day of school, start paying attention to everything your child does at school, and parents should listen as if they are very interested, and then also ask questions about what they feel curious about. When your child complains about not fitting in at school, you should not criticize, such as: Why are you so stupid! Why can’t you do it when others can? It is normal for everyone to be uncomfortable in a strange place, but after a while, everyone will get used to it. Parents want their children to become what kind of children, we have to appreciate him in that direction. For example, you want your child to write neatly. At the beginning, it is impossible for your child to write well, but at this time, you should not criticize your child, “Look at what you have written! It looks like a shit crawl”. Instead, say something like this: “Wow! Your baby’s handwriting is so neat, much better than when mommy first started school!” Then the child will write more and more neatly. Some parents like to keep an eye on their children’s homework, which is a bad practice. The child’s homework is his own business and should be his own responsibility, parents are doing this for their children, and will slowly develop the problem of not finishing their own things well without parental supervision.