Parents often complain that children nowadays do not have a grateful heart, growing up so good to him, what to give what, even if the family conditions are limited will try to meet him, not let him feel aggrieved. But he is good, grow up not know appreciate adults, very selfish. Parents did not teach him this from childhood! In fact, life is basically the same, it is not that the child does not have a grateful heart, but he never felt that this is “grace”. What to give what, there are good things to eat with the child, for example: when the child is very young, often handed to adults to eat, and then, adults often do not eat “baby, you eat it, mommy does not eat. And so on”. This kind of behavior for the sake of the child at all times, will make the child feel that he gets these is normal, is deserved, and is not what “favor”, do not give should not be it! So when you don’t give it, he will make a scene, and when you give it, he will make more of a scene. Therefore, it is the parents who have trained their children to become like this. What to do? Have the mindset that all the good food and fun things in the house are common to all members of the family and everyone has the right to share. As in the example above, when the child hands out food to everyone, the adult should gladly accept it and say to the child, “That’s delicious, thank you baby. Slowly, when you give the child food again, he will learn to say “thank you”. Another example: when the child has some requests, not instantly satisfied. The younger child should learn to wait, the older child should learn to explain the reason, and then the parents should let the child develop a sense that he or she must work hard to get it. For example, a child wants a pencil sharpener, and he already has a pencil sharpener. You should say something like this: “If you want a pencil sharpener, it’s okay, but I want to know why you want a pencil sharpener, Daddy. The child will give his reasons, and when he thinks it’s okay, say “Well, that sounds like a good reason, and daddy can grant your request, but not right now, you have to work hard to get it. In XX days you will make XX progress in XX areas (study or life, not just study) and daddy will meet your request and buy you the best”. Note, always note: the whole family must be consistent, not just in the father’s place to say yes, to grandpa immediately to do.