I’m a doctor, I’m not healthy myself, it’s ridiculous, right? Early 40s, a head of white hair comparable to the oldest qualified professor, a talk is easy to shortness of breath, walking knee pain 。。。。。 So the last 2 years, to their own belief is no longer “see one, help one, there is a fate to help”, but slowly is “see one, do a good one, there is a fate to help again”. I think of many ways to inform people about the consultation, I write articles to simplify the preparation for the consultation, I post all the instructions and methods of registration at the door. But I still couldn’t stop it, so refusing to add a number became the reason I got the most complaints in the hospital, which I don’t know if it’s my joy or my sorrow! I don’t know if this is my joy or my sorrow! The joy is that the patients still like to work with me, otherwise they wouldn’t ask for extra numbers, but the sorrow is that refusing your extra numbers makes us “enemies”, even rising to complaints about my attitude, which is really the biggest humiliation for me. Today, the tragedy is again —- doing my best for a Peking University student who is still a schoolmate, and at the end of the session, the family kept asking for additional appointments, and I politely refused again and again, more than 5 times, and I even talked about my I even talked about my gray hair and helplessness to refuse, and inadvertently learned that she had registered for this appointment through a number seller. I kept telling the method of registration has been posted in the clinic, under the strategy, do not hang up the number of vendors, or later found will be refused to see the doctor. The constant refusal eventually became an embarrassment to us. The family finally stopped pushing, but the college student suddenly accused me of having a bad attitude. I was aggravated, I said did I have a bad attitude when I saw the doctor? You accused me of this. Was my attitude really bad? Is refusal the reason for your accusation? To calm things down, I went to the toilet to stabilize myself, I had to serve the next patient. When I came back, the college students were still accusing at the entrance of the clinic, and I closed the door and ignored them in order to reduce the argument. The family kept entering and I repeatedly explained that the child already did not trust me and there was no need to talk further. After a few rounds of this, the family suddenly barged into my office during my next patient’s visit, threatening loudly, “My child is not well, I’m not finished with you! !”. The patient in my consultation room looked stunned and said to me afterwards, “I never thought doctors would have such complaints. After a while, people from the clinic and the medical office came, and I kept having to state the facts, and the patient’s treatment in the clinic was repeatedly interrupted 。。。。。。 Don’t let the rejection become an embarrassment to each other, be rejected more, you will have a good mood evaluation who good attitude? Don’t let the rejection become an embarrassment to each other, such trouble out, is what you and I want, you are not happy, I am also very sad! Also don’t let the rejection become an embarrassment to each other, your mood swings I really can’t meet your requirements either. I am a small doctor, and every such complaint makes me wonder what good reward I actually get for my best efforts? I hope we work together more, this time well, and I look forward to the next time, there is always a chance. Don’t let rejection be an embarrassment to each other, or a sadness to the doctor, or the cause of your fluctuating illness. I hope everyone is well!