”Competition! Competition!” “Work! Work!” “Earn money to support your family” …… countless slogans urge men to move forward, and a man who is under too much pressure psychologically is sure to have an impact on his work and family life. When many men are afflicted with no libido, instead of treating them with drugs, they should be allowed to regulate and open their hearts and heal themselves. Among the patients who come to the hospital, the proportion of women is much higher than that of men. But this does not mean that white-collar ladies are more psychologically stressed, on the contrary, this situation is more dangerous for white-collar gentlemen. Modern life has made more and more men appear sexual and reproductive dysfunction, which is not only disease factors, but also psychological and lifestyle habits brought about by some effects. The modern people often stay up late and work late, play all night long, smoke and drink too much coffee, some habits may seem “fashionable”, but they unknowingly affect the health. In today’s increasingly competitive world, men are working at all hours of the day. At the same time they also need to always bother to figure out the boss’s a move, a look, always be wary of colleagues coveting their positions. All of this creates a great deal of psychological pressure on them. And the pressure derived from the family adds to their fragile psychology. The busy work makes them lack of communication with their families, and marital problems, children’s education problems and emotional cheating problems arise. In the seam of work pressure and family pressure, professional men go hard and awkward. There are also men with the following characteristics that are more prone to mental illness and create a very big obstacle to treatment. Men are on the verge of a much easier breakdown. First of all, the public expectation of society for men is a successful career, if a woman is not successful in her career, but she educates her children well and is a good helper to her husband, she is also successful. Men, on the other hand, have no way back, they can only be successful in their career to be recognized by everyone. If the work does not go well and there is a temporary setback, they are particularly stressed psychologically. Secondly, in the accepted standard, men are strong, should bear everything, “men have tears do not play lightly”, so the result of male mental depression, will certainly also affect their physical and mental health. Third, men with psychological pressure, often through some unhealthy way to relieve distress, such as smoking, drinking, driving fast cars, playing video games, watching horror movies, going to nightclubs and so on, the pressure is not lifted off, but affects the health of the body. Fourth, men are worse than women in many aspects, the average life expectancy is shorter than women, the incidence of cardiovascular and cerebrovascular diseases is ten times higher than women, the body’s tolerance is poor, and so on. To reduce the psychological stress remedy: mainly from the following aspects a, self-expression. Such as in the field and other places where no one cries or curses, you can also use the pen to talk about their pain. Second, family and friends to guide. This will not only find a solution to the problem, but also get the opportunity to transfer the psychological pressure. Third, emotional transfer. By participating in sports activities, participate in social and other methods to divert attention to transfer emotions and reduce psychological stress. Fourth, hobbies rush to eliminate. According to their hobbies to find things to do, which can make people become positive and cheerful. Five, when you can not relieve yourself, must not forget to find a professional psychologist. Therefore, society should be called upon to change the traditional concept of male awareness, enhance male awareness of their own health and health care awareness, male and psychological disorders as a common disease to pay attention to, male health problems first need to “self-love”, should not be “grandma does not hurt uncle does not love “The “unspeakable”.