When doctors become patients’ families too

Because my mother had surgery, I also became a family member of a patient, and although I had surgery at the hospital where I was, I still experienced how difficult it was for patients before and after they went to the doctor. First, I experienced how difficult it is for ordinary people to see a doctor. Although I was the doctor in the family, the old man still told me about the disease more than 2 months after it appeared, maybe he felt it was not important, or maybe he was afraid of bothering his children? Maybe it was both. When I knew the condition, I told the old man to do the train from his hometown and come to the hospital he was familiar with, because if you ask me to go to a hospital I am not familiar with, I also have a headache, the procedure is cumbersome, the doctor is not familiar with, I do not know how the doctor’s real level of practice, a lot of uneasy place, imagine even I am a doctor who has worked in the provincial capital for 16 years are worried about seeing a doctor, and the doctor is not connected to the people will Will not be more from nothing? The Department of Neurology of Shandong Qianfo Mountain Hospital, Han Ju, is right. Although I work in a hospital, I am an amateur when I really leave my profession. When I signed for the surgery, my 78-year-old father said his hands were shaking, and I said, “Sign it, don’t worry, there’s nothing wrong with it. In fact, internally, I had no idea, but I did trust the surgeon. This makes me think of how many people can understand what I am talking about when I talk to a patient, in fact, the content is too professional and there is not enough communication in a short period of time. Of course, it is difficult to fully understand, I think the significance of the signature is the emergence of complications should have a certain degree of tolerance, after all, you do not do the surgery itself will cause some degree of damage, if you can have a sincere, frank, mutual trust in mind, do not sign it, of course, can not readily rise to the legal level, in fact, moral self-discipline has more practical significance, every really good doctor himself will never The actual moral self-discipline is more realistic, every really good doctor will never subjectively let the patient out of the problem, otherwise this doctor in the circle is not mixed, of course, does not exclude individual level is not high but the so-called can fool the doctor, this doctor is after all a minority, most doctors are still very professional sense of ethics, very honest, in fact, every industry has such people. As for the kind of problems attributed to the medical staff should change their mindset and figure out the real reason. The time spent waiting outside the operating room was really torturous. The doctor said it would be over in an hour, but when it came to 2 hours before it came out, my heart started to think the worst. At that time, my elder brother said to himself, “Is it okay? It seems that in the future, we should tell the patient’s family about the operation time in the long run, so as to reduce the anxiety of the patient’s family while waiting, or it would be better if we could inform them about the progress during the operation. Although my mother had her surgery yesterday, I spent very little time with her because I am a doctor, but I was very busy and tired at work today, and three patients who already had appointments for surgery could not be left out, so I had to work hard for my family to spend more time with my mother. The second patient’s condition was more complicated than expected, so I communicated with the family again and finally the two very serious cerebral stenoses were solved smoothly. The third patient did not need further stenting after cerebral angiography, so it ended fairly early. However, the graduate student followed me to do three surgeries, and already felt very hard, I should be better, mainly because I have to concentrate more during the surgery, and also because I have already gotten used to it. Although the work environment and social environment of doctors is not ideal, but after experiencing the process of family members to see a doctor, I feel that at least there is a better family to study medicine, first of all, the chance of misdiagnosis is small, after all, they can know that the doctor’s professional level is better, and then the patients see more, they will pay more attention to life and body conditioning and disease prevention, and will also promptly remind the family After all, health comes first. After all, the body is the first, from the most narrow point of view is for their own health and the health of their families, learning medicine is also worth it. On the other hand, from their own personal feelings, and constantly improve their own medical technology, can try to give patients to solve the pain of disease, is also considered to achieve their social value, no matter how others think, how chaotic society, how poor the medical environment, they can do without a guilty conscience is enough.