When two people in love want to stick and be together day and night and year and year, when their age meets the requirements of the marriage law, that’s when love evolves to the level of married life. When they are making preparations to go to town, when they are having a physical health check, I hope they should also consider that they need to have a mental health check, for the sake of a stronger marriage castle and a happier married life. What are those mental health checks that need to be done? The first is to ask yourself about your heart. Is this love sincere and is it watered down? What percentage of it is water? What are the components of moisture? When this moisture is dried, can one still hold on to the castle? This is the necessary condition of marriage, and the most basic condition. The so-called foundation is to say it – the love of love. The second is a comprehensive assessment of the other person. The other person’s personality, interests, views on marriage, including work and family of origin, these in love can be considered less or not, because love makes people weak, but in the walk into marriage must be sober, do not consider these will make you walk up and fall, fall serious may lead to paralysis or failure of the marriage. I have had counselors who have communicated this to me in great detail, but they all talk about the other person’s place in the sun, and I feel as if he is talking about the other person as the embodiment of the light bearer. What about the moon? Where is the flaw? That’s a blur. To understand a person, it is important to have a comprehensive, objective, rational attitude, not an emotional or one-sided way of thinking. This is also the primary condition for marriage. The third is the expectation of marriage. Marriage is two people working together to operate, which everyone understands, but just like business, operating a marriage, but also to have her goals and planning, the goals and planning to be based on the ideals of the two people and the reality of the situation integrated, the planning is vulnerable to outside interference, which is a test of the two people of the couple alliance is tight, there is a temptation by the outside world, the other should be alert, timely The consolidation and repair of the marriage expectation goals or do timely couple communication, is necessary, but also necessary. Couples unite, work together to build a marriage and family, to resist external temptation, which is the most solid foundation for entering into marriage. Think of a story: a certain village in a certain country, whenever there are lovers to enter into marriage, the locals have to ask an old man to do a test. The old man, at night, asked two people to cut a tree together, and when they finished cutting, the old man would draw a conclusion, allowing or not allowing them to marry. In fact, what this old man did was a psychological test of marriage: whether you are – together, together, in harmony!