She was exquisite in her looks and well dressed, and she said, “See how perfect you are? I want to be like you so badly.” This statement was a huge compliment to my narcissism and made my whole body feel soothed and sweet as honey. But, of course, I knew it was simultaneously a huge trap. Because psychotherapy is an interaction between the therapist and the client, a special kind of interpersonal relationship, the therapist must know clearly that he or she is a human being, not a god, and should not go to the “altar of god” automatically or passively. Therefore, with my “third eye”, I observed that my own emotional and physical reactions were extremely happy with such praise, and I felt a sense of fluttering, wanting to float to the altar of God; I also observed that the visitor wanted to put me on the “altar of God” so that she could do whatever she wanted; I also observed that the visitor wanted to put me on the “altar of God” so that she could do whatever she wanted; I also observed that the visitor wanted to put me on the “altar of God” so that she could do whatever she wanted. At the same time, I observed that the visitor wanted to put me on the “altar” so that she could do whatever she wanted to do; I also observed that the visitor was a “goddess” who was out of her life and causing her a lot of pain. This led me to the following hypothesis to guide my therapeutic work: the visitor has the appearance of a goddess, but inside she has a heart of seven passions and six desires, and she is unable to clear her mind of her desires. How could this “fairy sister” be willing to “wash her hands and make soup” when she was faced with the trivialities of food, rice, oil and salt? How could the “fairy sister’s” wife be helpless in the face of her husband, who she claimed had treated her badly? How could she bear to serve her in-laws, who loved her son as if he were their own? No wonder she was so distressed! Therefore, after making these observations and assumptions, I immediately jumped down from the “altar” and discussed with her that I am not perfect, that I am just an ordinary person, that I also have my feelings and desires, that I also have a lot of troubles in this world, and that there are people and things that I cannot handle. I asked her, “Do you want to work hard and be a goddess, or be an ordinary person with pain and happiness?” She immediately burst into tears and said, “I might really have been too much of a goddess before, too tired and too hard, and my husband, family, and friends didn’t understand me, and I was the one who isolated myself.” At this point, the treatment comes to an end, the visitor is ready to “land”, of course, from “know” to “do” there is still a difficult journey, but with the direction, will always move forward. Therefore, friends of psychotherapists, we will meet a lot of “princess disease” women, they can not do in the life of the princess, will come to do our patients, but also imagine us as a rescue princess of the gods, hold us on the altar, at this time, we must not be fooled Oh!