The current tension between doctors and patients in China can probably be described as “unprecedented”. There are many reasons for this, and the root cause is not in the doctors, let alone in the patients, but in the Chinese system and beliefs, which will not be discussed much. In the current state and framework, facing this reality, we medical professionals, as the main party in the doctor-patient relationship, should do better, do more, take more initiative to repair this trauma, try to alleviate the current tensions, and contribute to a better and faster recovery for patients. First, we should actually be good to our patients. This is not in words, but to think from the heart: if this patient is my next of kin, how should I treat him/her. In fact, I often think, for each patient, what kind of examination means, what treatment plan should be used, what drugs, without a lot of reasoning, just assume that the patient is my father or mother, how I should treat how to treat, how to treat how to treat. Second, we should learn to apologize to patients and families in a timely manner. Learning to apologize should be a basic lesson for every citizen to treat others, treating patients as well, if a measure or means is our fault, must be the first time to them sincere communication and apology, which is an important and effective measures to deal with the upcoming crisis relationship. Third, we must always talk to our patients. This requires us to talk not only about the condition, but also about life, and it is essential and very friendly and effective to ask for warmth and chatter during room visits. Once I overheard an old patient, he shook my hand and said excitedly, “Dr. Lin, I will always remember what you said to me when you covered me before the operation, thank you. I asked him what I had said, and he said that I had come to him when his surgery was about to start and covered him up, and said “Don’t be afraid, we will do our best”, so he would always remember. Yes, every word from the doctor will be remembered by the patient because he was talking to him when he needed the most help and was afraid. Fourth, we must always physically touch the patient. Nowadays it is bad to see some doctors checking in with their hands crossed or in their pockets, without touching the patient at all. Doctors must touch the patient, whether it is a physical examination or in a caring position. The first thing I have to do every day is to feel the patient’s forehead with my hand, then his pulse and around the wound. This is a really useful physical contact, which can make the patient feel the doctor’s kindness and warmth. Fifth, we must not treat patients “tooth for tooth”. Doctors meet thousands of patients in their lifetime, and will certainly encounter a few unreasonable people. To treat these people, we can only put their behavior and words aside, how to treat or how to treat, the worst thing to do is to return the favor, that would be stupid and dangerous.