Marriage Counseling Tips 1. Before dealing with problems, first deal with emotions. 2, Be self-examining. Do not think about how to change others (your husband wife). 3, can not change the reality to change their mood. 4, the storm, sweet and sour is life. The consequences of impulse is the bitter fruit, only to swallow and bear. 5, lover affair is wrong, but, your responsibility? You have to bear the responsibility you should bear. Marriage relationship counseling 1, learn to meet each other in moderation. 2, to have “private space. 3, is not a moral problem, is the excitement of the material (environmental impact). 4. Don’t hurt your loved ones (each other, children, the elderly, etc.). 5, if you did not do anything, more “nothing”. 6.Don’t blame the other person so easily or you will have peace of mind. Understand Freud’s theory of “Ego, Self, Superego. Thinking before making the decision to divorce 1. Cost assessment (whether the result of divorce is greater than the harm suffered). 2. 2. Personality assessment (after remarriage, does your personality guarantee happiness) 3. The substance of the problem (is your opinion correct? Are the facts you believe true?) The question is: What is the truth? 4, survival is not easy for everyone, all have to experience the sweet and sour, pain and pleasure is the essence of life. 5, learn to face reality, face all the difficulties in the unfavorable.