Marital Conflict Requires Counseling In reality, people’s married lives are not always happy at home, and the substance of a couple’s relationship does not change just because they are at home every day or every day they are not. We are also convinced that nothing affects the quality of a marriage. A good marriage is conducive to the harmony of the family and to the physical and mental health of the person. The danger of bad family relations is extremely serious. A good marriage requires the joint efforts of both husband and wife. However, in real life, it is inevitable to have marital conflict, how to treat and save is a very scientific and artistic matter. We should be good at solving conflicts and problems in the family. In fact, the best way to solve family problems is to solve them yourself, as the saying goes: quarrel at the head of the bed and the end of the bed, so that others to solve the inevitable fog. Between husband and wife is not shopping, investment of 100 dollars must get 100 dollars worth, on the other hand, you use 100 dollars to buy the goods is really the real thing? Isn’t it true that sometimes you buy things for$100 that aren’t even worth$20? Therefore, there is no need for us to emphasize more on what is valuable or right or wrong in family relationships. The usual ways to solve marital conflicts: 1. Be brave to express yourself, that is, to dare to express yourself and M sufficient for your own needs. 2.Good communication skills can help couples maintain a good affectionate relationship, thus reducing stress. True communication promotes mutual affection. Two people who live together often experience friction. These frictions are not discussed and they can easily lead to distress and conflict. 3, produce friction and strife is a normal phenomenon in life, if not handled properly may become a source of stress, if you can effectively solve Q, the relationship naturally improved, thus reducing the pressure to face, to ensure physical and mental health. In fact, husband and wife quarrels, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, parent-child conflict and other family problems, are not sick, but some expectations, communication, role adaptation and beliefs of the different, if the delay is not heeded, these questions: no matter what traits you crave for a spouse, you have to cultivate these traits first. 4, do not speak lightly of extramarital affairs, and do not feel free to accuse. Extramarital behavior is immoral, irresponsible, in accordance with the personality theory of Floyd, he (she) themselves to punish themselves, if the victim attempts to stop the breakdown of the marriage through accusations, retaliation and other means, in fact, is equal to help him (she) to complete the part of the punishment that should be subjected to or all of the punishment, he (she) will end up peace of mind to the end of the marriage. Freudian subconscious theory suggests that the accusation itself indicates that one has dissociative trauma and that one’s heart will be filled with hate. If the marital conflict is difficult to resolve, it is hoped that one can seek the help of a psychiatrist in time to resolve the marital conflict in a scientific way and method.