As a man from the moment he was born is considered the pillar of society, the backbone of the family, everything is fighting to show the man’s side, always remind themselves of a man, this is particularly prominent in the sexual aspect. Men seek long size, long time, high sex skills, in sex as long as there is a little blow, men’s self-confidence will be hit, think they are not as good as other men, or even begin to inferiority complex, thus afraid to contact with the opposite sex, and even afraid to fall in love, married. In fact, you have not thought about it, when you form a “I can’t” judgment in your mind, your judgment criteria is often due to their own inability to achieve the goals they want or the standards exaggerated by others, while ignoring the real criterion for judging this issue, that is, whether they and their partners are satisfied. So what are the wrong “male psychology” will affect the confidence of men? The author summarizes the common “male psychology” into several aspects. First, the longer the penis the better Many men think that the penis is not long enough will lead to love discord, they are not man enough, in fact, this is a misconception, penis length on love is not too big, because the sensitive area of the female vagina is located in the outer 1/3, the penis erection as long as it can reach 8 cm or more, generally can complete a normal sex life. The longer the time, the better. Many men are pursuing “sex marathon” and think that the longer the lovemaking time, the better. In fact, the pleasure of lovemaking and the length of time is not directly proportional. A study shows that women need the perfect lovemaking time is 8-13 minutes, if the lovemaking lasts too long, but will cause discomfort. Third, the skill is king Many men believe that love is considerate of their lover, we must use superior skills to make her get orgasm. In fact, women are more concerned about the lovemaking process is respected and pampered. Fourth, failure once means bad sexual function Many men because of the occasional bad erection or ejaculation fast, they think their sexual function problems, carrying a heavy psychological burden. In fact, tired or bad mood when erection difficulties, or a small reunion when ejaculation is fast, are normal, does not indicate that the sexual function of the problem, do not need to worry.