1, the vanity of a super-convincing woman all her life live in their own woven vanity world, if the vanity is too strong, it will never enjoy the fun of daily life in the ordinary, even if it is living in a big house will look forward to living in a bigger house, such people usually do not take the “contented people are always happy” as a motto. 2, compare the strong heart of a good woman with other women all their lives to compete with other women, than her husband who has the ability to do well, than the child who has the ability to do well, than who has more money, if you find yourself behind, the heart of the jealousy will be born in her eyes, their own things are their own, other people’s things are best for their own, this kind of everything like to compare with the left and right neighbors of the women who are usually very difficult to live in the security, not to mention the feeling of happiness. The woman is usually very difficult to have a sense of security in life, not to mention a sense of happiness. 3, thought and emotion especially anxious in the rhythm of life is getting faster and faster today, many women will inevitably produce a fickle mentality, want to be famous or rich overnight, as well as more and more materialistic woman is gradually increasing, and such a woman’s understanding of security and happiness is the money, no money suffers from anxiety disorders, completely unaware of the sense of well-being due to a sense of security, a sense of security due to the pursuit of life in the light of it. 4, do not know how to pay only want to get a kind of woman like an “iron rooster”, she counts all day and night with their own dealings with people, everything can not suffer losses, and once you eat a loss will not be able to sleep, in order to get a few dollars more bonuses, in order to occupy a few inches of land in the area in front of the house, and even think of others to treat themselves and never thought about how to treat others. How to treat others, such a woman will only use a magnifying glass to see the shortcomings of others, painfully 5, only love themselves do not love others, especially narcissistic woman usually feel the most insecure, she will be like a thief to guard against any one person, her heart her love will never be open to others, in her eyes, other people’s love are unreliable, but also extremely insecure, or the love of others can be ignored. Other people’s love can be ignored, she will seal up their love, only their own is the main body of life, of course, there is no love for others naturally does not produce happiness. 6, can not stand the hard work of husband and wife together with hard work and hard work to fight for a happy life is the most common mode of survival, but can not stand the wind, food and shelter hard life of women can not appreciate the fun of it, they see is the hardship of life, so she will complain about their husbands, and resent their own eyes did not have long to marry a man to follow the pain in her eyes to see only the pain and hardships, some women Nature can not wait for the day the rainbow appeared. 7, the lack of ability to perceive happiness, as the saying goes, “in the blessed do not know the blessed”, some women live a carefree life of food, clothing, housing and transportation, but still feel the life is dull and boring, neither gratitude, but also do not know how to feel the happiness, and always feel that there can be a better life, especially when you see their first love refused to live better than their own! When, always unable to experience the current life happiness, and even has been feeling the lack of security factors in life. 8, the happiness of the man bet on a woman, married to their full attention and all the thoughts and emotions are focused on their husbands, no longer have their own personalities and their own hobbies, and even pre-marital friends are fewer and fewer, her thoughts are only for their own men and live, so the man’s every move will affect her nerves, and men usually emotional lines are more rugged, so such a woman is usually a good idea. Therefore, such a woman is usually self-pitying. 9, love is too romantic, always imagine love is too romantic, always imagine your husband as Prince Charming, always imagine the two world is particularly perfect, such a woman once she saw the reality of life is not as she imagined, the heart of the less-than-ideal will be born, or feel that their husbands no longer love them, or feel that life can not accommodate their own, so all day long to let themselves live in the sooner or later will be abandoned! Worry and fear, such a woman will not have a sense of well-being. 10, there is no independent personality hobby, security from the life of self-confidence, and happiness comes from their own ability to hold life, therefore, self-confidence, self-love, self-improvement of independent personality of the woman, able to tolerate others, understanding of others, accept the shortcomings of others women, is the most able to feel from the ordinary bits and pieces of life in the contentedness of the happiness of that, because they live a simple life, life will not be Beyond their ability to pursue, they know that as long as there is a good state of mind can feel happy, can feel that they live a very safe.