In the psychological clinic, we often see frustrated parents dragging their children to the consultation. Although these children are all tiger-headed, they are either mischievous and undisciplined in class, or they throw tantrums and do not listen to their parents. These worried parents complained as if their children were the problem. I can’t help but ask, “What have you done for your children? Children are the mirror of their parents. If parents are willing, you can take a closer look at your own child, who is actually the most real mirror of you. Childhood, especially early childhood, is a critical period for children’s psychological development, and children at this stage have a strong ability to imitate. Many parents think that as long as their children learn well and are capable, everything will be fine. Few parents try to cultivate love, integrity, courage, faith and cooperation in their children. Even if they do, some parents think that sending their children to a variety of “early childhood” training institutions will do. The truth is that parents are the best teachers for their children. Children’s behavior can reflect the code of conduct of family members, especially parents, so in order to have good quality children, parental “teaching” is secondary, “do” is the main thing. Parents’ temperament and character directly affect the formation of good character of children. “Teaching by example is better than teaching by words”, parents must start from me and give their children a good example. In common activities with children, parents should give timely stop to the child’s negative behavior, but also to the child’s good behavior to give full affirmation, through behavior reinforcement, good habits, good behavior will be consolidated, in order to form a child’s sound personality. This journey is a lifelong treasure for the child, and for the parents, a second growth in life. Our parents are not not precious children, do not love children, children a cold and a fever, they are more anxious than anyone else, can not wait to be sick for their children. However, how much do they care about their children’s inner thoughts and feelings? After school, children are sent to English, piano and other so-called “interest classes” in batches, as if they were packed. For the sake of your children, please “look” in the mirror often. It is not only your child’s future, but also your future.